hi everybody I am just wondering this question is a 3 part so please bear with me and give me your honest answers,opinions and your perspectives thanks.
1.Am I the only smart guy who is smart enough not to play some women's games like mind games hard to get games etc. of any games women play with men and guys like me? And yes I am a nice guy and I'm damn proud of it(pardon my french) they do play games with men when dating and when they are in the relationships with the guy/man.
2.do you think I'm a jerk if I choose to not play any games the some women play like mind games,hard to get games,reschedule games,etc.? Like if she can't make it she say" sorry I can't make it maybe the next week" then she make up excuses again and say" next week" then she takes you for granted if you get what I mean.
and 3.Was I right to give her only one chance if I sense she don't like me or if she is about to play games with me I'll have nothing to do with her if she asks me for another chance. When she apologize to me I'll give one final chance if she does it again I'm done with her I tell her off like I tell her you think it's he he it's not funny
I'm done we are finish I am not going to play your stupid immature games and I find someone else who don't play games like that. If that don't work feel free to give me advices ahead of time when they play those stupid immature games some women play how to deal with them.
sorry everyone if it's too long I just wanted to know your opinions and your perspectives and your answers and also see if I am the only smart guy who don't play those childish games some women play when dating nice guys,good guys like me and other men she does that to
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I don't know that this is about games. It is about recognizing quickly when someone is not interested and moving on. Guys can be just as uncomfortable with telling a girl he is not interested and then playing "games" to avoid telling her the truth. People hope that you will catch the hint instead of having to spell it all out. Some don't really care and just want to keep you on the hook until something better comes along. Girls do this, guys do this too.
So, if you ask a girl out and she says she cannot make it and "maybe" next week, you should definitely catch the hint and move on. I have had that experience with guys. One guy told me that he couldn't firm up the final details of our date because he was taking the day off and wanted to see if his friends were available to do something first. I totally ditched that guy, lol.
And if a girl treats you like her second choice, what would the point of giving her another chance be? I cannot even imagine a girl doing that and then actually asking you to give her a second chance. A girl that doesn't like you that much would really care less to ask for a second chance.
So, good for you. Catch on quickly when someone thinks you are okay instead of amazing and don't waste your time hoping they will change their mind.0