"I used to do the same thing, I'd wait a couple of days before texting back or calling because I wanted to create the impression that I was a busy guy with better things to do and other women to meet.
However the opposite was quite true, I did it out of desperation, I wanted the girl to see me as cool. It really is a desperate thing to do, I wasn't really that busy. Infact when I look back on that time, this is just another game I played to try to win the girl over. I was so unhappy with who I was, that I presented myself as an entirely different person."
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Might be true sometimes. Or they might actually be busy. But to be honest, if they were busy they probably wouldn't be texting anyway. Calling, maybe to set up a date. I wouldn't start the impression of wanting regular convos exactly for this reason in the seasons I know I'll be busy. I'd rather just set a date in person.1