My boyfriend and I just got back together after being broken up for a while. He calls or Skypes me every night but I run out of things to say so we just go quiet but he talks to his friend or accidentally falls asleep if we don't talk. It kind of gets awkward not talking. And when we hang out we don't say much either. Were both pretty young though, so any suggestions things we can talk about?
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My wife and I read a little book (really short) named "The Five Love Languages." It's a Christian book just in case you have deeply held feelings against ... but it has really good information. You both might have a love language of "Quality Time" which can easily be falling asleep on the sofa together watching a boring TV program like Bridzillas or the Super Bowl. You can probably find the little book free to borrow, a lot of people seem to know about it, or in the library. Don't neglect the secondary love language and keep your relationship "spiced up" with some activities with friends, maybe family (blow their minds) and other things you both like. Also spend time apart with friends. You should see each other from a distance relating to your friends. It's cool for a guy to see his baby having a good time as long as there isn't something going on that could create jealousy or mistrust like disappearing behind the bleachers with some guy.
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