and both agree to hang out sometime. Do you plan the date and ask her out? Or casually suggest taking her out and let her make the plans?
Feel free to elaborate past the poll : )
- I plan the date.17% (19)59% (64)37% (83)Vote
- I let her plan the date.8% (9)16% (17)12% (26)Vote
- Other (explain in comments).4% (5)10% (11)7% (16)Vote
- I want to see the results.71% (81)15% (17)44% (98)Vote
Seems like most of you guys do the planning, but expect the girl to pitch in her efforts, too (rightfully so)
Most Helpful Guy
I plan the date. Women don't have much respect for guys without initiative.
I do try to make it something I think she'd enjoy. And If I can actually manage to come up with something based on something she's said, there seems to be a lot of appreciation for that.