well every since I was 18 years old I have uncanny knack of getting rejected before they even get to know me .they right nasty to me too when they rejection me .i try to be nice most of the guys I like are some times players .i am not much good guys after about 12 years of rejection I can't take it any more .i don't know why they been cruel to me all the time different guys from different places different backgrounds even different country they all treat me the exact way .this how they reject me by boasting they have lot girls or they had of girls ,one said to me he hot young stud he like women just not me .they bost of there stud status to me I don't know why .yet I get rejected they end up lots of girls I end on my in differently . I am short 5ft 2" tall chubby looking black hair and brown eyes and pure white skin ,i am shy and quiet .i did not go to school with boys as child I went all girl school from age 4 to 13 years old .none of guys wanting to know . one guy rejected he has list of women length of phone all he does to get them is nothing .he has very good looking tall fit tanned snow white teeth he walk in room women are already checking he know this love is no problem for him.
men find love no problem they find it every where .life is easier as man when it come opposite gender its not fair why is so easy for them so easy I can't understand ths magic men have I don't .
find love is not problem i.d love to kind of magic this guy has to find love so easy it mean nothing to him he doesn't even have try women come running
i don't know what wrong with me men hate so much to be that cruel you lads say its not cruel but it when you she .these guys who rejected find another girls second later I end on own with no hope finding guy its not fair
what is wrong with .please don't tell the right has not came along I don;t even experience not even experiences never be kissed never asked out never even had fling or dance with guy nothing not single thing not even kind word no compliments only insults and hurt comments for example " any woman but you " here is another "don't get me wrong I like women just not you" etc
these guys all find women week later I end alone and single all by my self alone and rejected and hurt .they didn't care not one they just go off with another girl in front me of once guy did that just after rejection me :(
those guys can have all the fun they want no risk
please no shallow or cruel remarks I am genuine with problem
i am highly sentice to hurt I have hurt entire life by guys in cruel right down to name calling and physical abuse, insults ,
they guys I like are cruel to me and not other women ! fact
please be kind with you words be nice I am asking because I don't not understand the male mind and I am confused so hurt and so lost
please help and be nice
Most Helpful Guy
Ok well first off, not trying to be mean you're being biased saying men have it easier and stuff.. Even though I am a man it's not technically my place to say but then again who's place is it to say?
But, on topic.. I mean It could be the way you're portraying yourself, you said you're quiet and shy, men are also people that like confidence we like women who are happy with what they are and what they want to become (Not saying your'e like this) But some people have harder time finder love then other's, simple and true.
It sounds to me that you need to (from experience)
A) Not care what other people are saying as much, especially people you just met
B) Try to better yourself as a person, like who you are :) and people will notice
C) Don't Give Up Hope
I don't see much wrong with what you said, although I must say you have struck some bad luck I know guys that are kind and caring even if they first meet a girl and not even attracted based on there background..
Suppose you're looking in the wrong place!
And the answer to where you should be looking?
Well, that's the kicker :) you find it were you least expect!0