So I met this girl on a dating site. We chilled Thursday night and had a good time. We ended up kissing and wrestling and everything. Very playful and flirty. :D I left late (2:45am) because I had school the next day and she was tired, plus it was late. I text her when I got home and she wrote me back and we said good night. I asked her if she wanted to see me again and she said "indeed I do!".
Now, not to sound creepy but here's what I noticed...I happened to look at her dating profile real quick when I got home...it said that she had signed on at 2:55am. So she already signed on to check it right after I left? Then she only text me a few times yesterday and she was at work. She got done at 10:30pm. Around 7:30pm I said to her, hit me up later when you're out of work or something. She never did. I actually text her but got nothing back. I looked again and saw she had signed on to the site again late last night (around 2:45am). I also had added her on Facebook, she went on and never accepted me. Still haven't heard anything from her.
My question is, what's the deal? What should I do? Is she playing games? Maybe changed her mind? I don't understand what's going on or what to do. I feel a little hurt honestly, because she had a good time with me, and right after she goes to see if other guys have wrote her. I mean...wtf?
It's so messed up how I can have a good first date, then be ignored and discarded for no reason. Depressing and discouraging.
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I think if you haven't heard it from the horse's mouth maybe from someone whose rode with the horse will help? Okay, bad intro bad what can I say, tried jaja.
Back to being serious and a little too foward, I've don't this dating cite thing and what can I say, there's many fish in the sea and she's NOT palying mind games with you, she's just testing the waters, seeing what she like and not likes, who she enjoyed better times with, the compatibility between the two of you.
Here's the thing, that's awesome that you felt something intense, something nice, great, amazing with her that day, but remember, its a DATING CITE.
Please do yourself a favor and don't take it seriously or worse, personal when this girl is doing herself a favor and making sure she doens't waste your time or hers by going out with you just because of the chemistry. Maybe she wanted someone serious, menaing she'll be taking her TIME and being SERIOUS about who to spend time with for not months but years.
If I were you, I'd have have fun meeting more woman not just her, if she's still in your mind after other great dates with other woman than hit her up, if she meets you halfway by responding than give it a second date and this time be clear that you want her all for yourself because I bet you never mentioned to her about wanting to have a serious relationship, you didn't claim her as yours, so what did she do? She went to find herself more guys or plain and simple, she's again, testing the waters. There's nothing wrong with that since the both of you where casually dating.0