Me and this girl where good friends for a while. Then we had a little fling together and it didn't work out. I broke up with her a twice, and she broke up with me once (which is the one that stuck). So we obviously weren't meant to be. No prob... I'm cool with it.
We decided to be friends after words... talking infrequently, and such. She invites me over to her SuperBowl party... and I went. She was a huge bitch all night. I don't even know what her problem was... she was constantly making rude comments to me, and references to her new f*** buddy. I didn't mind, except the constant rude remarks she made to me.
WTF?!?!? I'm over this shit. I thought we were going to be friends, she wanted us to be over and we are. She has nothing to be pissed at me about. I don't get it, it makes no sense. Could someone please explain the mind of an 18 year old girl to me?
Any idea's about how I should handle it? Please keep in mind, that this is someone whom I care deeply about. And I'm not gonna lie, I would still consider trying again if she were interested. But right now, I would be happy with us just being civil.
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okay, first off, she is 18. she is immature in telling you about what she wants. first off, she is horny, and wants to experience sex with others, being tied down in a relationship is something that want stick at this moment, maybe in a couple of months, but not now. Trust me I know these things, I'm about to turn 20 next month. :-)/ anywho, at the superbowl party, she was bein childish because she is not sure how to act after bein involved with a friend more than once. Nobody knowa how to be friends after something like this,but it is possible. I have had flings with guys who I still have as friend now. but she is only 18, so you are basically dealing with a premie. give her sometime to realize her stupidity. oh and don't call for a while unless she does first, but be short and frank. that really gets females sweating bullets, but really it will be good for you and her, especially you. have a fling with someone at least 1 or 2 years older. :-)2