This guy I've known and worked with over a year, recently started showing a lot of sure fire signs of clear interest. I really like him back and have shown clear signs to him also. We haven't verbally been open about this yet but we both know exactly what's going on. He is a very sincere very nice guy and I know him well at this stage. But something needs to happen with this now. We work together so don't get much time out socially together. it would have to result from an asking out type thing first.
So my question is now that he's reeled me in - what happens? Do I say something? Does he say something? We've gotten much closer on a personal (and not just professional) level and we are quite close and intimate with eachtoher when we're having work conversations just the 2 of us.
i feel its time to act on it but am unsure what the pause is just now. I really gotten to like him and am willing to bet a lot of money he really likes me too and has intentions about it. He's not a messer or a flirt or player and he has clearly chosen me to get closer to recently and make it clear to me and others he's interested.
but I don't know how to proceed. Or maybe I should just be patient and stay close and reassure him I like him.
I'm just having doubts and would like some insight from guys before I say something to him and make an ass of myself with someone I have to work with daily.
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Maybe the answer's in your update-
"I'm just having doubts and would like some insight from guys before I say something to him and make an ass of myself with someone I have to work with daily.
If you're feeling that he likes you but you're having doubts ... why wouldn't he be having the same doubts?
Work place relationships are a mine field . It's a big deal to ask somebody out , get turned down and have to face them every day .
Infact work place relationships are a mine field full stop . I have said no to a guy I liked before because I didn't want the added complication of working with somebody I had just started a relationshiotionship with .0