It's all above.
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well I don't have to sit around and wait for guys to pick me, which is great :p I can be open about my sexuality without shame to my partner, neither my partner or I have to worry about being too feminine or masculine; we save a lot of money not having to pay for each other lol.
theres also the perk of having a choice. I'm not bound to my boyfriend by law, if he hits me (which he never ever word) or mistreats me I can leave with little negative judgement towards me and the same goes for him.
he isn't liable for me; before if your significant other committed a crime, the husband was punished for not controlling his wife's deviant behavior lol.
we're bound to each other by love, affection, and friendship-- not because we have to be.3