What always happens to me that is so annoying is when there is this guy I like, and he likes me and another girl. He always chooses the other girl and I was wondering how do I break that pattern? I am not this cocky in real life, but I am talented, pretty, athletic, artistic, and deep. The other girls that usually stand in my way are also pretty, probably have more of a "cool" factor than me, or more mature than me (if the guy is older) Guys, tell me what I have to do to exceed the other girl! And right now I really like this guy, he's told me he likes me, but I am too scared to tell him I like him too and I think it maybe too late!
When he decides between two girls, how do you become the #1 girl?
What Guys Said 3
dating is a (perceived) scarcity game. if you are all invested in this one guy who isn't even holding you in a special regard, what you do is you are ensuring the worst possible treatment of your feelings0
ironically by being clingy/needy than the other one. I had two girls I was seeing once and I ended up being with the girl who was more chill and relaxed about everything. In your case, you say the other girl is more cool.. which is probably what's attracting him to her. What about her is cool?0
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If I foundout the a woman I was seeing was dating another guy, I would leave. I think you should do the same0
What Girls Said 1
Start liking NEW guys , you should never be anyone's second choice. If a guy really likes you then he just likes YOU. No other girl should be on his mind.2
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