The guy I'm interested and I both tend to act pretty nervous around each other. I know that's probably most because we like each other (at least I think he likes me back!), but I'm wondering at what point it's a bad sign? I don't want to be with someone I can't relax around.
How long did it take you to be able to relax around your SO? How did you transition from the awkward I-like-you-do-you-like-me-too stage to a comfortable romantic relationship?
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For me is very natural to be nervous around someone that I have just met and I like. I am so concentrated in trying to make a good impression that I can't be myself. Once I to get to know her, spend some time with her, laugh with her, and share some stories, I am no longer nervous.
If you are still nervous after spending 5 or 6 dates it means you guys are not compatible and you might never be comfortable around them. You can use to it but not very comfortable with it.
So it probably depends on how long the nervousness last, if it lasted too long then it's a sign that you guys cannot relax around each other.1