I'm so Sad. I'm going crazy . I don´t know what to do, We had a plan that we would meet each other yesterday for the first time ( a date with a guy I really really really like). He was supposed to call me two days ago. He did not. Neither did he call yesterday. But I don´t understand what happened between our lovely conversation about meeting up and yesterday. I'm crying so much,
Is it wrong to call to ask what happened or is it desperate? I'm so sad, I like him so much.
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I think he bailed out. Tough luck.
Despite how much you like him, I have a tip for you ...
The next time he calls or wants to talk to you, tell him you're busy and he can try tomorrow. So when he does try the following day, don't pick up. Fight fire with fire and play the same game he's currently doing.
In the meantime, go talk to new guys that you may have interest in. Exchange numbers. You're single, you're out on the market. Therefore, it doesn't hurt to play the field.
And if you are going to cry or keep your fingers crossed in hoping this guy contacts you, then you're betting too many chips on him and becoming clingy.0