Do girls in general have a secret concerning flirting/ dating/ relationship you don't want guys to know? You don't have to say specifically what secret it is or in what specific field of guys-girls- relationship. You don't even have to explain anything. Just state.
Most Helpful Girl
well here's my little secret though I sometimes failed at doing it:
first treating the guy as just a friend, nothing more nothing less.
because going after a guy chases him away and acting uninterested at all usually makes the guy realize that he doesn't have a chance so acting in-between is the best way. and guys want a girl they can laugh with, have good conversations with, possibly watch TV & listen to music with, etc anyways. but of course after the guy shows more interest then I act more interested in him [hopefully not too much] and we become more physical [and hopefully not too physical.]0