There is this guy I have been talking to for the past two or three weeks. He has a very busy lifestyle he is an EMT and works demanding work hours. Well he explained to me that he isn't very good with his phone and often times takes a long time to reply back to text messages/phone calls. Well I told him that I understood that, and figured well if he is busy most of the time I will just leave the ball in his court to call/text me.
Well we don't really talk through out the week. A few text here or there and maybe one phone call per week.
Now I'm getting a vibe like this guy doesn't like me all that much because even though he may be busy he could still take out the time to talk with me...IF he really liked me.
Also whenever we do text...its extremely stale he doesn't ask how my day has been or anything like that.
Also when I ask him how his day went he always answers with "its goin" or "not much chillin at home". He doesn't tell me much about his life...its kind of weird.
Does he sound like a player to you? This past Monday I told him that I was going to call him. Well when I did call him it went straight to voice mail which was odd because 30min hadn't even passed when I told him I'd call him. When he returned my call I asked him about the voice mail forwarding he just said he was busy with something and knew I had called. ...Soo he forwarded my call to voice mail...Ooookay.
Does this sound like a player to you? He is always out hanging out with his "friends" whenever he is off. Sounds suspicious? Or am I over analyzing things?
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Well... I've had lots of experience with these guys. Honestly the question I'm going to ask you is this "If you lived a busy EMT lifestyle, would you STILL make time for a guy you liked or thought of?" Hell as a woman, once you got back home, you'd probably call the guy you like or at least message him and you sure as hell would be thinking about him through out your day. That's how woman or men are WHEN they like somebody.
Honestly, your asking "Does he like me?" That question should NEVER come into your mind. Honestly, by his ways it doesn't show that he's a player, he very well could be! but to me it just sounds like he's not interested but isn't man enough to say it, maybe he's just trying to be nice. Honestly, girl.. It's nothing wrong with you, you just have to try again or wait for a better guy to come along. :)
Let me tell you my experiences with guys... Awhile back I met this guy at the gym, and afterward I gave him my # and he gave me his. I called him and asked if we could hang out. The next day when I was planning to hang out with him he made this VERY lame excuse and said he would just like to be alone right now and not talk. Anyways I tried to be nice and for the next couple of days I would call him.. Anyways I gave up on him completely when he looked down on my interests... I'm like "screw this this guys not worth it.." lol
Its a diff. story than yours but I've been ditched by guys who werent interested in me... lol They'd break their promises, be half-hearted or not hearted at all... and than I met this guy at church, I don't blame him but I saw it coming.. I got his # through a friend, and than I called him.. and I asked right away if we could hang out.. lol and he said "no I gotta study" his excuse to hanging out was that he was busy at work to when I asked him in real life.. anyways after he said he had to study... he said I could call agani at 3-4 and from than he ignored my call... and so I tried calling again on Friday and he ignored it again.. than I threw away his # and deleted his number off my phone lol... its not his fault he's just not interested in me... some guys operate like that... honestly its not the best way but to me the church guy is no big deal I saw it coming lol
but I moved on... once you get rejected enough (like me) you see it coming.. but my advice to you is don't give up. look and WAIT for a nice guy. Don't give up on your search for love and don't settle with a guy who treats you like dirt. Please. you deserve a nice guy :) you should continue praying and waiting for a nice one.
Anyways... If you want my honest opinion this guy is NOT interested in you. If he was he would make more time for you. He obviously has free time nobody is THAT busy. Its not like he's a doctor... lol or an actor... he's got probably 14 hours of free time.. He probably has days off... and him ignoring your cal only after 30 minutes is QUESTIONABLE
don't be sad though, there's a better guy for you :)0
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