OK so there's this girl I guess you can call her my ex even though we went out for one day. I asked her out around November last year and I know for a fact that she liked me, she told me so herself. The next day though she started acting weird so I asked her what's wrong, and she said she doesn't think she ready for a boyfriend or something like that but said maybe in the near future. Now recently I've been wondering if she still likes me which I'm not sure about. And I've been starting to like this other girl. Should I wait for the first girl even though I'm not sure of she still likes me? I still have a lot of feelings for her:/. Or should I move on to this other girl? Also I was the first girls first boyfriend but I don't know if that has anything to do with it.
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Going out for a day back on November? I think you owe nothing whatsoever to the 1st girl in terms of mind-share. She told you you weren't for her the 2nd day - yes that is in fact what she told you.
If the girl LIKES you, she doesn't worry about if she's ready or not ready for a relationship, if this is a good time, how it fits in your schedule, or any of that rational, analytically crap. If she is in a position to be analytical, she does not FEEL much.
Once a girl FEELS strongly affectionate towards you, her reason mostly goes out the window. For better or worse :)0