When we were together we both said we were in love with each other. Everything we had felt so real...she said I was the perfect one for her and that she could see marrying me someday. Then everything went wrong due to our individual circumstances and we couldn't keep it going. As crushed as I was, she decided to make the blow even heavier by telling me that she never loved me and everything she said was just because she was lonely and hadn't been with anyone in awhile and the only person she was ever truly in love with was her first boyfriend from 3 years ago. I don't know what's real anymore. She was my first girlfriend and I was so in love with her and now I feel so betrayed and lied to. I thought the first love was supposed to special and something you'd remember forever, but I regret mine so much because it was all a lie. Any advice?
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I have been through exactly the same thing. my ex(1st boyfriend) made me feel like he's always hiding or lying about things to me. I really loved him at that time so I always pretended that I fully trust him with no question. I guess I was afraid of loosing him and didn't know what or how I should do. At the end, he used having no feelings on me and haven't found the special girl yet to break up with me after 9 months. Guys can hurt others in this way as well. Now I'm trying to move myself on and I realized that there are such many amazing things that I want to see and do. Cheer up! buddy0