Do you wait to be approached, or you act? I personally know that if I sit and wait nothing will happen, not only in dating but in every aspect of life. Girls on the other hand have no problem cause in general guys are supposed to approach..
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Disregard females, acquire currency.
As her looks fade (downwards), you assets appreciate (upwards).
If she's looking to have kids and start a family, she'll hunt you down and pump your pen*s dry like she has a lethal illness and your sperm has the antidote.
In the world of professionals, the traditional dating game is flipped.
It's highly unprofessional for men to be going around and chasing women. It's not high school anymore. Nobody wants to have the reputation of being a womanizer or "Bill Clinton". Plus, you never know which client or partner has daughters, and how do you think that kind of reputation is going to reflect on you or your firm? Also, men are trying to shake off a negative reputation of being the more hypersexual sex. Would you really trust your million dollar deal or lawsuit in the hands of a guy that is too busy chasing around women?
On the other hand, the opposite is true for women. If you see a woman smoothly picking up a very decent guy (not just any guy), then that's exactly who you want as your attorney. She knows what she wants, she goes after what she wants, and she gets what she wants. I guess it's also a negative reputation of (waiting around for things to happen) that women want to shake off of them, both in front of clients and partners. Women don't want to be perceived as "passive" or "lazy" (the kiss of death in the legal profession).1