I failed miserably trying to date while in high school and now college is ending for me in a couple of months and in all likelihood nothing will change in that time. I've gotten to the point though in my life that I realize that I need to approach this issue from a whole different perspective.
So as I prepare to enter a new environment (grad school in my case) I was wondering if anyone had any tips on maybe something that worked for them when trying to open up and meet more people especially of the opposite gender.
I know that in general I need to be more assertive about meeting girls and try to connect with them on more than just a casual acquaintance basis, but this is really unfamiliar for me. If I'm ever going to date, I need to at least know these girls more than what I have been doing. Any tips or suggestions? Things not to do? Things that worked for you?
Help a clueless guy out :D
Most Helpful Girl
yea I know how you feel I'm in the same boat however I'm a girl haha...my advice would be to just try and be some girls friend...just friend or be a few girls' friend and get to know them more and go from there. another might be just getting a job working a few hours a week if you don't have one already, ud meet more people and if you hang out with some coworkers you might get to meet their friends and so on.