Okay so I've been friends with this guy on Facebook for a couple of years now that I had a fling with about 7 years ago. He started talking to a girl after me and got her pregnant so they got married...some time later separated for a while, got back together had another kid and now it appears they're separated again. He has deleted her from Facebook and she's been going out partying. He commented on my status lastnight and gave me his number and is "wanting to get together" this coming weekend. Is it wrong of me if I hang out with him since he is seperated from his wife? I'm not trying to get a crazy woman on me but at the same time we used to be friends too. I'm stuck on it because I know for sure it's wrong if he was still with her but if they're not living in the same house and she's going out partying all of the time now...?
Help! Is this a big NO NO or okay?
What Guys Said 3
Right or wrong, I don't know, but he does not seem like a family, or relationship kind of guy if he has been together, and separated with a girl several times, and got her pregnant. I would not recommend you to go after a guy like that.0
Definitely wrong, just come meet up with me instead :)
If they are separated (which it sounds like they are) then it is okay - you are doing nothing wrong. Sounds like it could be a bit complicated though as they have already split up and got back together plus as they have kids they will be seeing each other again because of that. I'd say go for it as long as you are confident he is over her and their relationship is finished or you would be okay with something short term if they got back together.0
They're separated, not divorced. There is a difference. Don't be "the other woman"0
What Girls Said 5
okay, if your motive is genuine or just want to be nice to a friend in need, why not? We all need someone sometimes in our lives...
But, whether you want to hook-up with him again or not, just tread lightly and slowly. Remember he has 2 kids and comes with a lots of baggages. Guard your heart well and listen to your intuition always.
No, there's nothing wrong with it as long as they're separated. Although be prepared for drama even if you are just going to be friends with him. She may get the wrong impression of what's going on and bring you into the drama.1
I don't see the problem. If he is separated from her then it shouldn't matter what he does. As long as he's honest about the fact that he's separated then it's perfectly fine. It's really not even nearly a no no, so don't worry and enjoy :)1
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