She didn't even say what I was doing wrong or right. She only said that I am not doing enough and made it clear that I am on some type of romance probation. She won't even kiss me.
The thing is, I feel like I'm the only one contributing. I'm the one who takes her out on dates and buys her dinner. I have planned trips and will bring her flowers every so often. Yes, these gestures are met with love and affection, but I feel like I am always putting forth the effort not her. And now she's says "i'm not doing enough"?
I just feel like the expectations are always on me to bring excitement to the table. She doesn't take me out on dates. She isn't surprising me with fun adventures, yet if she is not satisfied it's my fault.
So is this a me problem or a her problem?
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She sounds like a spoiled brat. This girl isn't worth your time. She doesn't care about you, she only cares about what you give her. Anybody who will withhold affection like that is manipulative, doesn't care about anybody but themselves. She's immature and possibly even has a psychological disorder. This relationship will be nothing but stress for you.2