Well I most be really unlucky when it comes to finding love,..I know so much about it,..but I can't seem to get it,...and if I do I get Heartbroken like recently! I didn't ever think I would cry so much over a girl,..but man did I cry,...eyes got swollen and everything,...I mean I'm a f***ing nice guy,...but all that gets me is a good stepping on or tossing.
Maybe I should be a bad guy since they always seem to get love,..or even guys who see making love no more than sex,..i mean I decided to not be a man hoe,..but what does that get me nothing,..I'm always there for my girls,..but when am I gonna get my peace of heaven,...think I'm impatient? Maybe I need to change myself? HUH I don't know,..but the word love is becoming one of my most hated WORDS!! :(
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I can definitely relate to your problems and concerns since I too was just there. I've been through some really tough problems concerning love and dating recently myself, to the point where I was ready to give up. Here is my advice to you:
Girls don't like it when a guy offers them happiness on a silver platter. You gotta make us earn it. I mean, you don't have to be close-minded or not talk to us, but make us work a little bit to be with you. If we happen to be free one day, you're busy. Don't call her every day, make her call you, and don't answer your phone all the time. I know that's hard, but trust me, it will pay off in the long run!
The one mistake I've noticed a lot of guys do is always offer to be there for the girl whenever she needs it. While that's good to do later on down the road, don't offer that up right away; make her earn your respect, trust, and compassion. I wouldn't change yourself though to be a "bad guy". Lots of girls just need to grow up before they realize that the bad guys are always bad news. Sooner or later they'll wise up and realize that they need a guy like you. And remember, if something doesn't work out between you and another girl, don't take it personal; something people's personalities just don't match up. Remember that there is someone out there for you and that person just wasn't the one, even if it hurts to admit that because you really liked them. I'm sorry for the length, but personally, I like all the advice I can get, so I hope you feel the same :) good luck, and even though it's hard to do, keep holding on, and hang in there!0