I've been dating this guy for 2 months, and I really like him. He made me feel like a woman. The chemistry was definitely there. The one thing I didn't like was that he was separated yet not divorced yet from his wife, though they'd been separated for 2 years, and lived in separate houses. Well, we went out on my birthday last weekend, and though he gave me a present and bought me dinner, the emotional energy was just not quite right. Plus, he mentioned his wife a couple times and that maybe if his wife had been better at communicating what she wanted then they'd have worked out...Ugh. I didn't say that I didn't like hearing about his wife, though I felt it. Well, he said he was waiting on her to file the divorce papers. Well, he hasn't called since this date. I felt anxious too, Because the energy was not right. Okay, my question is that do I just wait to see if he'll call me, or should I call him and just see what's up? I really do like him. I had mentioned probably like three times that we are open to dating other people, though if he wanted to date someone in our same social group- a club we both are part of- that he can't date me anymore. He seemed annoyed when I said this last time. I really would just like to date him, but when we first met, he gave me the impression that we would not be exclusive. So, I am protecting myself too.
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I would just end things with him honestly.Legally,he is still with his wife.And I would bet more than anything that his heart is still with her as well.If she snapped her fingers and said lets try again,you would be completely out of the picture.You must remember,he MARRIED this person because he had every intention of spending the rest of his life with her. Right now,it sounds like he is with you to take his mind off of things.But it is probable that he is working on a reconciliation with his wife...hence not contacting you.Or if they are not quite reconciling,he sure is thinking of HER and what he actually wants. I would leave while I still had dignity.0
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