Why would a man want to hold my hand, sleep next to me and spoon me in bed yet be in love with someone else and want to marry her? He tells me I'm his best friend, we're only a year apart in age, while she barely knows any of his history and they are 17 years apart. I don't get it. Can you guys explain what's going here to me?
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He's just using you. To you, holding hands and cuddling is intimacy. To him it's to make you feel relaxed, more intimate so he can get you in bed. He tells you what he knows you wanna hear to keep you around. And he's marrying her because I guess she has the qualities he feels will make a good wife to him. This guy is not a catch since he's two timing his wife, but apparently she's a good look for him.0