Say you want to get the woman of your dreams back into your life. You love her, and would do anythng for her.
Her new boyfriend/partner (who you've never met, and vice versa), gets defensive, protective, and tries to start a fight with you.
a) Prove your love for her by fighting him, (best case scenario) winning and profess your love to her, and ask her to come back?
b) Let him beat you up as a means of showing her how easily this guy can lose his sh*t, and what she's getting herself into by being with him.
Which would you choose and why?
Most Helpful Girl
It doesn't work. not for me, anyways. If you love me, talk to me. If I'm in a relationship when you tell me, expect to wait-- I don't cheat. If I love you, I'd leave him and come to you. There is no need to insert yourself into an altercation in order to win me back; love shouldn't be that conniving, it should be honest and organic.0