I've learned that for many girls they supposedly don't text first because they don't want to seem desperate or clingy, or even annoying. There's also other reasons but when I sit back and think to myself about it, I have to ask myself if there's anyway to know for sure that the individual I'm texting is truly interested? I mean sure there are obvious signs of attraction but unfortunately in our society today flirtation without actual relationship intentions is common. Of course every person has their own experiences with this some better than others, but what should you look for? Some girls will text first while others stick to their guns about waiting for the guy to not only make the first initial contact call, but all the other ones as well. I could easily say that if your trying to connect with a girl who lives by the standard rule of conversation and is also a laid-back type, that if she never texts or calls you then she probably isn't interested. But the truth of the matter is it isn't always true. Has anyone experienced having to always initiate contact which caused you to think the other person (namely a girl) wasn't interested just to find out later on that they did? I would prefer not to find out when it's already too late.
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Honestly, guys do the same thing too, because some guys feel as if they believe they are bothering the girl and all, and us women worry about the same stuff too. Sometimes I wonder why my boyfriend doesn't text me first, but that doesn't mean he isn't interested. He once told me that he doesn't always text me first because he knows that I wake up from my phone bussing with his texts, and he doesn't want to wake me up. I usually text the guy first just to say good morning, and if I get no reply_ then they aren't interested. But if they do, and they hold a good conversation with you, then they are interested. Sometimes you have to put in work to get the solution my friend. :)0