I apologize for yet another prom question..but I really don't want to go.. I was asked by a girl I'm pretty good friends with over text and never actually said I'd go, just that I would consider it.. She pretty much took that as a yes and started planning.. I've told her that I might not go, and she got upset. I'd like to stay friends with her, but just hate the idea of prom, how much it can cost, and I don't want to crush her hopes.
So my question is, how can I tell her? Or should I just suck it up and go? What are my options here?
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Hey if you can go to a prom AND ACTUALLY HAVE A DATE then you're more fortunate than some people. You were more fortunate than me. That's why I stayed away from such things.
Except the grade 8 graduation prom. I think the only reason people danced with me is because they knew I was moving out of town the next day and they would be fortunate enough to never see me again. So they were mercy or pity dances. I never really dated anyone in high school (that was in my city). Funny thing is there is one girl in particular I was quite attracted to. I was too shy to ask her out then. I have no idea what she's doing still single.1