I am 16 and I have never been on date, kissed a guy or even had a guy tell me that he liked me. Up until this year I have been quite shy and quiet. I have been trying to get guys attention but they seemed to be all hooked on the "loose" girls. I consider myself to be nice and honest. I get half decent grades but I think they still I just feel like there something wrong with me!
I lost 50 pounds about 2 years ago but I'm still a little chubby and I'm far from the best looking out there.
I just don't know what to do. I am extremely hard on myself and a major perfectionist and I have low self-esteem and guys not even realizing I am alive isn't really helping...
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Don't worry so much and don't put so much pressure on yourself. You're only 16! And while that may seem at least kind of grownup to you, it isn't. You and your peers have a lot of maturing to do and boys will start noticing you later when "loose" girls aren't their preference. Stay confident and find things that you like about yourself to boost your self-esteem. From my experience, the more esteem and confidence that you have the more people are attracted to you, good girl or "loose girl". So keep your head up, remind yourself of what you are good at and like, and don't be too hard on yourself or think you're not normal- I didn't have my first kiss until I was 18, and now I'm doing quite well for myself1