If I'm on a date with girl I like, and its the first time I've been on a date with her, when is the right time to go in for the first kiss? What are some things that she does so that I will be able to tell if she wants me to kiss her? or should I not even go for it on the first date?
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Ok this is what I do, first off on your date don't walk on egg shells around this chick, you want the date to be fun, and yes you wanna ruffle her feathers just a little bit, don't go to the extreme, as in saying something like damn your fat or something like don't do that. But say she has a weird looking purse there's material right there, just look at it and be like what the heck is that? did you seriously pay for that or did a five year old make that? what is that is that a dead animal?
Sounds harsh but if play it off as your joking with her, your going to really get the ball rolling here, which is a very good thing, she's going to fire stuff back at you like say that was mean, or she maybe even make fun or your shirt, and then you can say oh you think my shirts ugly fine then tomorrow you get to go with me shopping and pick out a new shirt for me since apparently my style is horrible. If you do this right you learned the secret to getting not only a kiss but a second date.
Some examples I have used on girls was their height, the fact that they are a woman therefore they are horrible drivers, I've made fun of their purse, the possibilities are endless here. Just steer very clear of things that can actually hurt her feelings as in her family, her weight, her looks, if you say something like that man your done its over.
Ok now that you have joked around with her and all that when your walking out of the restaurant or where ever you are and it might a be a little chilly and she says something like I am cold, I will say well you should have brought a jacket, I did and I am warm sucks for you. Once again you get the your mean, won't even give me your jacket, and at this point she might hit your arm, and then you say try that again and see what happens, of course she will do it again, and be like ok keep it up see what happens.
You see this little childish game your playing with her is classic and it works every time on different girls, this whole physical touching is working in your favor and if at the end of the night she's thinking man this guy is not nice, but he's really not that much of an ass, and if she had a good time she's going to want to see you again, and so when you drop her off, walk to her door, and don't mention anything like can I kiss you, oh and don't linger around for 30 mins you wanna get that kiss so when you give her that last hug lean in man and just go for it, if you played your cards right she will kiss you, and next time you call her she's going to answer the phone, its not 100% but I would say it's close to about a 95% chance she will answer or call you back.