So I have hung out with this guy on 2 occasions, the second time we slept together. But I also have a date with this other guy on the weekend. Do you think it's fair I tell the first guy I don't want to be exclusive but want to keep hanging out? I don't know when I'll be seeing him again so would it be okay to send this in a text message? And if so, what do I say?
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Since you haven't actually spoken about being exclusive, I don't think you are exclusive. So, there really isn't a reason to assume that you are or to be telling him. I mean, you don't even know if you're going to see him again.
So, no, do not text him to announce that you have a date. It will look weird. If it comes up in convo, you can say that you are not ready for that at this time.2