I am doing a poor job of managing my personal life and my relationship. I am dating a girl that I very much like, but I can't take my mind off of her. Every minute I can outside of work I spend with her if we don't have anything else interfering. What is some advice to take a step back and stay focused on other things in life?
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Get control of your HIGH interest level. Never let your interest level in a girl be higher than hers...what I mean is...don't show it on the outside(your behavior,and actions). Spending so much time with this girl is doing nothing but making it seem like you have no life...or not other options (other girls) to her. You're rushing into rejection. Yes...like you said..you must step back. Only see her once a week.(if its possible). Date other girls. Don't text her EVER. Only call her to set up dates. I highly recommend Doc Loves book...The System. It has helped me Big Time! From what I've heard so far...this book was written for you!3
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