Both my boyfriend and I agreed that it was best to go on a dinner date with my boss to save my job. It's a little complicated but things are difficult at work, and since he's been asking for about a year we figured it's best I go on the damn date. We both believe he will not try anything he just wants to spend time with me. But now, that the date is lined up my boyfriend won't stop taking about it! Every conversation is about my boss! He says he is only making fun and having a joke, I'm not looking forward to the dinner, so it's a little annoying.
Do you think even though he agreed to it (actually it was his idea!) that now its bothering him? How would it make you feel?
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Your boyfriend is weak. He doesn't want you to go on the date but he doesn't have the balls to put an end to it or speak his mind so instead he's trying to express his feelings though lame humor. Your boss is going to try to have sex with you. He doesn't want to take you out to dinner to spend time with you. He wants to have sex with you and he'll try. Maybe he'll use your job as leverage. My advice is that you go ahead and do it and ditch your loser boyfriend. At least the guy you're going out with has some balls. Your boyfriend agreed to let his girlfriend go out on a date with another man. He's a chump.
I would be interested to hear about what makes it complicated. If things are tough at work because you made them that way then do better or get your resume out because it's easier to find a job when you have a job. Remember that there are fifty nifty United States and some of them have better job markets than others. If things are hard at work because of slumping business then take your chances like everyone else, but dont' compromise your integrity, not unless you like your boss. If you like your boss then this might be the perfect opportunity to trade up. Go out, have a good time, and see where it leads. Maybe there'll be a connection. I bet he wouldn't kiss you goodbye so that you could go on a date with another man.1
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