Once your with a guy for awhile say a year why is it that he seems to stop trying? I love my boyfriend but I hate feeling like I get no attention and that I'm always trying for him but not getting it back?
Why do guys stop trying?
What Guys Said 1
Lol Well I can't speak for whoever your with, he may have simply stopped trying. But it is more likely that he has reached that point in the relationship where the whole spark has dimmed. Where that rush of spontaneous excite of being in a new relationship has worn off. Your lucky for most guys in a relationship it could be as little as 6 months. But this is very common. It happens in every relationship. He is becoming more comfortable with you and doesn't see the need to try so hard. He will probably stop giving you as much attention, calling you less, texting you less. It's not that he doesn't care, he simply has become more comfortable being with you.0
What Girls Said 1
People get comfortable, and when they get comfortable they get lazy. Just tell him how you feel. If one person is always giving more than the other, it won't work out. He needs to meet you in the middle somewhere to balance it out. If he doesn't think you're worth the effort, it may be time to move on. You shouldn't be with someone who doesn't make you feel good.1
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