I cannot feel much 'connection' with this girl I am dating now. I kind of like her a lot and care a lot about her. She respond to me quite enthusiastically. But I just cannot feel the connection. Does this still means we are not suitable for each other? Or does it means I am not trying hard enough?
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I was in a relationship like that. I sat it out for six months thinking that I'd find a way to build a connection or that he'd lose the spark, too. No such luck.
Having been there, I can tell you it's not fair to either person to remain in a relationship when you have tried and tried, but you're just not feeling a connection.
To this day, he's the only ex I'm friends with, and now we're like family. It took a while, but we did patch things up. It takes patience, kindness, and understanding on both parts in order to work that sort of thing out, but I truly believe that the less you live a lie, the better off you'll be when you can't do it anymore.0