I'm talking about going on dates with more than one guy. I'm doing that lately. Sure they don't know about the other, but I have already told them all I'm not looking for anything serious. I'm waiting for a cute hipster or musician. In the meantime, I just go out with them. They pay for my meal and movies and concerts. Is that bad if I told them I just want to get to know them better first, but they insist on taking me out anyway?
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What Guys Said 4
I agree with both of the comments. I think it is OK to see more than one person at a time - as long as you are genuinely interested in finding out who is just right for you and could see yourself actually having a future with.
Using guys for a free meal, with basically zero interest, and no belief of having something serious with them at some point is just straight grimey to be honest. Very disrespectful and an overall terrible idea.
If you're NOT interested in them at all and have no interest and trying to be together or something at some point.. that's just wrong. You're basically using them for free stuff? Horrible. Have some respect for them and just tell them no.
"Would you rather get shot in the head and die, or shot in the heart five times before you bleed out?" - Billy Bean2
I don't approve anything of this.
The first reason is that I don't want to be only "a second option" and I certainly don't want to "share" the girl I'm dating with someone else... with anyone else!
The second reason is that you're leeching the money of those guys you're dating while at the same time not being interested in them. Yes, they offered but you should turn them down anyway.
Still it's partially their own fault - thinking that by buying things they can charm a woman, and especially - tolerating when a woman mistreats them such way...
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Wow you don't realize what your doing? Are you that retarded? Your using these guys... even if you say you just want to be friends. You should be declining there offers. Get a grip of yourself lady
Would you like it if guys did that to you?
I think you should let them know that you're seeing other people before you let them spend their money on you...1
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