I'd love to know so I can make a first date easier for myself.
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be improper (don't say sexual things, don't fart or burp or pick your nose or anything)
flirt too intensely, as in don't be overly touchy or sexual unless she starts touching you.
expect her to pay or let her if she offers.
spend too many hours together.
try to go to her place or yours.
ask her for a second date on the spot. if you want to see her again, call her. she may not know
also, please call her within 3 days. in my opinion it is best to wait one or two days and then call. my guy just waited 3, if he had waited longer I would have been turned off
if you really don't know each other well yet, I wouldn't recommend trying to kiss her.
here's some other tips.
do things like hold doors, pull out her chair.
ask her a lot about herself.
make eye contact and smile.
don't gape at her sexual body parts.
flatter her in a discreet manner. say something like "you look pretty". don't say hot or sexy on a first date.
also, please contact her after the date. if you don't want to see her again, it would be much nicer of you to say "hey I had a good time with you but... (I thought about it and I don't see us going anywhere, hope to see you around OR I don't think we are looking for the same thing) a lot of guys only call or text if they are interested, and either way rejection sucks but not hearing back is really annoying. Or, if you want to keep it open, tell her you hope to see her around sometime but don't ask for a date on the spot.
Hope I helped. Dating kind of sucks because it is confusing and filled with anticipation.0