Ok, my girlfriend wakes up one morning and tells me god has told her that I'm not the man she is suppose to be with. So I tried to get this idea around my head and we stayed together because I said you can't just wake up and tell me that how about just try, think about it for a while. She speficly said no your going to get hurt. I didn't know how to take that.
Months went on. Then she started to really start accusing me, constantly attacking me and starting fights. She started started then saying I'm not good enough for her and etc. We had a fight and she said I treated her like cap and that's it. She went silent. I do not treat her like crap by the way, just so you all know. this is were it all started to come out, she then became very blunt and attacking saying. She didn't like that I had kids, she wanted a man who had money because she needed cosmetic surgery and needed to improve herself as a person, that I didn't have enough money, that I was baisicly rendered useless to her. by the way when we first got.together 4 years ago I told her after 1month I had kids and now after 4 years she tells me all this. I say this because she said next time your in a relationship be honest from the start about kids. OK I took it on board but she rejected anything about her telling me all this stuff after 4 years being totether. Is this person 1, just doing and saying anything to get out of this relationship but will only do it if I'm to be seen as the blame, I'm guessing it is? And it is her style she's studying law. And 2nd, am I normal if I think this is just crazy and she has more issues then I might know about? what do you guys see?
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Okay so god spoke to her, then she became an aggressive selfish, loathing bitch for no apparent reason. She probably needs a shrink, cause I don't see a normal person's train of thoughts lead to that kind of behavior . Besides that, I don't really know what advice I could give, seeing how she probably won't open up to you.
Im wondering tho, why haven't you left yet?