I have been together with my wonderful boyfriend for about 6 months now. I love him so much and really believe that he is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. The problem is that I have something I have been hiding from him.
One month after we got together I went on a vacation with a friend. We met some other people there who we became friends with. The thing is that one of the boys there wanted to take a photo with me. He asked if he could give me a kiss and I said okay because I thought that one little cheek kiss wouldn't hurt. So he kissed me on the cheek when the photo was taken, but then that bastard continued to kiss me on the lips and I got so shocked so I didn't know how to react or say. It was over in a few seconds but I got so disgusted. During the whole trip I felt so bad about what had happened - that I had cheated on my boyfriend back at home. I cried so much over it, yelled at the guy who had kissed me and told him that it was not okay. He apologized and I cut the contact with him.
It has been 5 months since that event and I still feel bad about it. I can't stop thinking about it and I get disgusted with myself. I don't know if I should tell my boyfriend or not. I know that it will hurt him so bad that my lips has touched another while we were together. I don't want this relationship to end and I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?
He got sad as I expected but said that he understood what had happened and we managed to solve it in the end. Thanks for your advices guys and girls. I appreciated it!
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its always better to say the truth. your boyfriend might get upset but he will be happy that you told him about what happened...wouldnt you like to know if he did something like that to u. put yourself in his shoes. I think its better to just let him know now before it slips out one of these days.0