The long and the short of it is, I am a nice guy. Raised by my mother I consider myself a gentlemen. I treat women with respect, I am honest, thoughtful and caring. I pay attention when you speak, remember your friends name and most importantly your birthday. Though I am not a push over like so many nice guys. I take the lead on many things, where we are going to eat, what we are going to do, but only because I know and understand your likes and dislikes. I know women like a man that takes charge, so I do, and so far have never dissapointed a women to my knowledge. So why am I still single? My last girlfriend, I knew her for over a year, good friend of mine, and one night we just clicked, and dated for 4 months. 3 days before deployment (I am in the army currently deployed) she breaks up with me, giving me no reason. Could have been because I was leaving country for a year, but it seems these things happen often to me. I date a girl for around 3-5 months, then they just leave me, offering no explanation for there actions. At first I thought it was the way I treated them, but that wouldn't be the case for more than one girl. Then I thought it was the girls I was dating, but I don't like bitchy needy clingy girls looking for a free ride, I like my women smart and educated who have a plan in life. So now I think its my looks. I'm 5ft 9 in, 185lbs, athletic build, brown hair, blue eyes. And my profile pic is a head shot, please, can anyone explain to me my problem? Feel free to ask anything you may want to learn more about me. Its really depressing to be deployed, and have no one back home wanting you...
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This is hard to explain, but sometimes, even when a guy is very nice and attractive, the relationship is either boring or going no where or you guys just don't have chemistry.
I know I've broken up with a guy (I feel awful about this, I'm not like a jerk or anything...) just because I wasn't "feeling it" in a relationship. Like, I just didn't feel excited or in love at all, it was just...him. He was very sweet and fairly attractive, I just didn't have major chemistry with him. (He's with another girl now who's head over heels in love with him, and I think that's what he deserves, not me who just is whatever about him, you know?)
Also, I'm not saying this is the case, but you can't describe your personality well. Other people have to. Almost all the guys I know say similar things to yours. ("I'm a nice guy, but I'm not a pushover, I'll be sweet to you and I'm thoughtful" etc.etc.) I'm sure you're a great guy, but I don't know you personally so I can't be the judge of that. This I just don't know about.
I'm sorry this is hard to explain, but things like this just happen. I'm sorry about past relationships, but I hope you can find a good girl for you!(:2