I met this girl online. We have only corresponded via email, chat, and video chat on Skype. I'm 31, never been married, no kids, never had a truly serious relationship, and I have never felt this way about anyone in my entire life. She is separated with a 4-year old kid and is in the middle of a divorce. She expressed the same feelings toward me about a week ago. We didn't get to talk this weekend on chat or video chat on Skype, but she sent me an email yesterday that said that because of me, her life has new meaning and she is much happier than she was before. And then she said, that she may "get weak" and go back to her husband, but she doesn't know. What the eff am I supposed to do now? Should I write back and ask her why? I'm not a home-wrecker...I didn't even find out she was still married until after I fell for her and told her how I felt. She's telling me she has deep feelings for me but that she thinks she may go back to her husband. I think if she did, I would be happy for her, because if it made her happy then it would make me happy for her. Obviously, I would also be depressed as hell and never forget her, but at the same time I'd be happy for her. What do you think I should say in my reply email?
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I know I'm just a 16 year old girl but ... I've been through many things in my life that someone my age shouldn't have to go through. She is going through a divorce, her thoughts are maybe jumbled around and she just isn't set on one answer. It's great she said that of you, yes. Maybe she is not fully ready (saying she may go back to him) because she was in a bad marriage (I'm just guessing) and she hasn't collected her full trust (we all have those thoughts in the back of our mind). Don't ask her why, just tell her how you feel about it and just try to understand where she is standing. You may be the one for her, but she has to pass this moment first. "What do you think I should say in my reply email?" <<< Tell her from the heart, not what others give you to say. Or it wouldn't be coming from you. Hope this helped ? ~MizzB~1