I ask people out all the time, and get turned down nonstop. I show myself online, and get told I'm "cute" looking, and have a great personality. But in real life, I'm described as "a good big brother", or "a very good friend whom I don't want to lose".
It's always this way, and I'm so tired of it. I try not to be the big brother type, and yet I always come off that way...
Is there no women out there that would like to be with me? Or should I just give up, and come to the realization that I'm gonna be single for the rest of my life?
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Are you going after "cute" and "sister-type" girls? Chances are, if you are chasing girls who have lots of sexual charisma, but you aren't offering any up (judging by the reactions), you may not be fishing in the right ponds. Either you need to up the ante on the sexual charisma (being more flirtatious, working out, getting in touch with your sexual side) or start dating girls who are a bit backwards in that department too and would LOVE to have a caring, stable relationship where the sexual power between the two of you grows as you get close to each other. I've really seen it go both ways and it works out equally well.1