In what ways do guys turn you off early in a relationship/dating...causing your interest level to drop from where it was when you first saw, and met them?
- Too many compliments19% (21)27% (13)21% (34)Vote
- Being physical too soon/ touching...kissing too soon.59% (65)33% (16)51% (81)Vote
- Telling you how they feel...too early22% (25)40% (19)28% (44)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
A. I like compliments, but conversations are a give and take. I wouldn't want him gazing into my eyes calling me beautiful. I want a genuine compliment every once in a while and I want to finish getting to know him.
((2.))! Being physical too soon is another turn off. If I were still dating I would want to go on at least 20-30 dates before we had sex or anything like that. Kissing comes when it feels natural, but I want to be sure that their's a genuine connection before I let the physical attraction slip my panties off. Also making out would be a minimum too. I don't want him to think I'm being a tease..
C. I don't believe in love at first sight, or even love in a week or month.. I believe it takes quite a bit of exposure at least 30 dates and or 4 months to decide whether or not to spill your heart. Admitting that you really enjoy spending time together is perfectly fine.. Just don't get sappy.
Overall too much too soon is a killer for me. It comes off as either lust, or desperation...4