Guys complain about being friend zoned, but girls get friend zoned too! It can get frustrating to be considered as a little sister or a bro by a guy I liked. I'm also very shy, unassertive, and have pretty low-esteem, and I'm the kind of person who prefers wearing sneakers and jeans over heels and skirts any day. I've been told that I can be too nice, and it doesn't help that my superego is way up high. What can I do to get a guy to like me given my personality?
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The only people who think girls have it easy in finding guys, are the bitter guys who can't believe anyone in the world has it as hard as they do. The twits.
The same rules apply to you as to them. If you're shy and unassertive and low esteem, you will make difficulties for yourself. Doesn't matter how good looking you are.
Don't dress like a little sister. Dress provocatively. Be a sexual creature. Not slutty. But make certain that guys who see you, go "Whoa!" and not "Oh, she looks like my little sister"
Remember, you're in competition with the girls out there who are putting themselves on display in the best possible light. Not with t*ts and flesh hanging out. But highlighting the things that they want guys to take note of. You need to do something similar.