how often should he text you? should he text you everyday or wait a few days in-between? how long after he and you have texted should he start calling you?
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If I give a guy my direct number -- not my email, etc. -- I expect something the next day if he's interested, or nothing for a few days if he's not interested. Too many calls/texts during the week gets to be a little much because I actually work and have to focus on other things, but a nice bit of banter on a lazy summer day (or weekend) is fun.
One guy I know started with a call because he knows he has a nice voice and we were both shy about texting/writing at that point.
Another guy started with a text because he had JUST dropped me off at my house and was basically flirting/checking to make sure I'd actually given him my number, lol. "Had a great time. See you again soon." This was followed by "Hi there" every morning, and "What's for lunch?" from me in response (since our morning schedules were a bit different). He'd text something to tease me if we were out and I excused myself from the table/group too.
Both were flattering in their own way because they show the guy is attentive and interested. That's really all that matters.1