Is there a timeline from when you send a message and when it becomes to long so it feels like they are ignoring you?
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Facebook-when you have seen that the person has been online or it's been more than 3 days
text-it depends. if you talk a lot, I say more than a few hours, although depending on the time of day, up to 10. but I think if you text a guy and he takes 24 hours to reply he is probably just avoiding you. I did that to this guy, we spent all weekend together and fooled around a lot, not sex but came close, and I texted him that I had a good time and am down for hanging out again, and all he said was, 24 hours later, "sorry I was busy at work". douchebag.