I've been in two relationships in the past 3 years and they both start and end the same:
He asks me out first and I say yes. It's all good for about a month or so. The guy REALLY likes me. More than I like him. Is it possible that scares me away?
And/or I get bored? Or I just don't feel it anymore? And I'm the one who breaks up with him.
I don't know if I'm a heartless person when it comes to relationships or what. Usually I'm a nice person but when it comes to dating I hate breaking guys hearts. So now I'm discouraged to date at all.
I think it's weird that both relationships transpired the same way.
Is there something wrong with me?
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I ask myself the same questions. I'm 33 and have never had a relationship last longer than 2 months. They always pick me out. I spend the first month getting to know them, then the second month deciding whether to dump them or not. I hate hurting people, so I try to end it as soon as I realize I can't see myself with them long term. I do that hoping to avoid more drama.
I sometimes wonder if I'm just too picky or if maybe I'm terrified of committment. In the end, I honestly believe I haven't met the right girl yet. In my opinion, being alone is better than being stuck with someone you don't want to be with.
I honestly believe we have the right idea. Most relationships and marriages fail because everyone settles for someone they aren't even compatible with. If I ever get married, I will mean it.0