Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend is so needy! I love him to death but I'm his lover not his mother. I don't mind helping him as a girlfriend but sometimes it just feels like he always needs or wants something. I'm in a better situation than he is so I often feel bad and want to help him but I often wonder if he was in my situation and vice versa, would he be so helpful and do the same? If I stopped doing less for him or made him understand not to ask me for things so much, would that make him less needy? I feel like there is a deeper issue..I just don't want to be f*cked over..I want to know he would do the same for me, and that I'm appreciated. Thanks for your answers.
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When you love someone to death and they love you back the same, there is nothing they wouldn't do for you. Why can't you feel confident of that? There will be in a time in your life, where you will need him as much as he needs you right now. And you will want him to be there for you 100 percent.
You can't go into a relationship trying to change someone's personality. If that is who he is, then you have to accept it has a part of him. If you want him to rely less on you, tell him that you'll be there for him but he needs to learn how to stand on his own two feet (and learn to deal with situations by himself.)0