So, I'm a cute sweet girl. I'm really nice and smart. Awesome sex appeal. Had to throw that in there lol, but here's my problem.
I get guys, very attractive ones. Problem is, the guys I seem to date fit in one of these categories:
1. The jerk- pretty self explanatory. he's fine as hell, fun to be around makes you laugh and then as time goes by he starts treating you like crap.
2. The fix me guy- those sweet guys who make you feel special with their words/actions and as time goes by you realize they're "broken", have massive problems/issues and or seriously need to get their life together.
3. The unattainable- Mr. "Perfect" talks you into a super ridiculously long distance relationship, or is emotionally unavailable or worse, is your best friend and practically thinks like a sister.
I have a problem with rushing into relationships. I'm never ever single for long. How do I take the time to refrain from jumping into relationships with guys before finding out if they're in my unlucky 3 categories... P.S. I'm ridiculously impulsive lol
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I know you probably want guy opinions but I read this and couldn't help my self this was me from high school to the age of twenty differnt bfs all the time more wrong ones then right sometimes the same one twice until it hit me that I wasn't happy in all the pointless meaningless relationships I took a step back realized I was young and there was more to life then a guy being there all the time..I decided I wasn't going to settle...and at first it sucked I would meet guy and they thought of being single sucked but eventually as I talked to people I learned what I didn't want and things I did...I realized I needed to be happy alone first and as it went on it got easier and believe it or not a lot more fun I didn't have anyone to answer to or worry about it was just me and I loved it...and now I'm at the point where I found this guy and talking to him gives me the cute little hschool butterflies and that weird feeling I got when I was crushing hard...and I smile a lot and it's the wow I like him I want HIM...not the relationship stuff or the having someone there but I want it to be him there him doing that stuff with me becasue he makes me happy not just the thought of it all and I believe that's the feeling you should get I think for once I'm not gonna settle becasue it's something I want...but until you realize what you want for yourself the meaningless bullcrap relationships will be there...it's mostly about you and what you want for yourself than them and what type of guy they are...My advice would be take some time don't look for it as hard!1