Okay so I am reading this person I knew in high school Facebook status about her going out on a date with some guy. This has nothing to do with me, and I haven't even seen this person since high school, but somehow as a guy I find it offensive! From what I gather from the various sub comments is that he tried kissing her on the cheek at the end of the date but she didn't like that, so now she's posting all over Facebook that she was "gropped" by said guy and today is the worst day of her life? And all her friends are telling her to call the police? like wtf. seriously.
Like should I be scared to make any sort of a move on a girl on a date in fear the same thing will happen to me? And it's not even like we're talking about teenage girl here, this person is in their mid 20s?
Why do some women behave like this? or is it just a small insecure part of the population? Or is this something I need to be highly aware of when going out on dates with women?
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well wasn't there obviously but if she is saying he was trying to kiss her on her cheek she may be over reacting but then again he might have been forceful about it. You never know, she may have had something happen to her recently that triggered that reaction. Sometimes women feel that men come on to strongly and feel violated if the force themselves on them when they have said no.
Would just suggest coming in slowly for a kiss and not being rough or grabbing her unless you have a go signal like she's all over you and I'm sure she would let you know if she doesn't not want to kiss you or do much more. sooooooooo yeah. lol.1