hey everyone. I'm a genuinely nice girl. I might not have stunning looks, I don't know like megan fox? I'm a next door type of girl. I was told I look like emma watson, to give you an idea. I'm funny and I'm most attracted to humorous guys. I'm into geeky things, video games, reading, painting etc. all over internet I keep reading boys nagging about their girlfriends being shallow and shopaholic.
I thought being a generally nice person with good looks would be enough to find love but seems like there's no one out there for me. I've been single for almost 2 years, met quite a few people but mostly I wasn't attracted to them, and when I was they weren't interested I suppose. I'm usually into good looking guys and there seems to be a huge misunderstanding. are all good looking guys arrogant and selfish and rather mean? I'm not being shallow, you just can't help who you're attracted to. seems like stereotypes are real afterward, all the unattractive dorky boys are kind and smart, and all the handsome guys are full of themselves.
I'm raised old fashioned and don't follow guys around. I'm rather quiet in a group of people- if I've just met them. do I have to change who I am and push myself to be more socially active, and become one of those loud people, seeking constant attention. do girls get attention only when they wear mini skirts and high heels? do you need enormous breasts or big red lips? is it all about sex? do you have to wear neon signs to be noticed ? do you stop educating yourself and worrying about how you make others feel when you're genetically, physically advanced? I don't know if I have self esteem problems, I'm wondering if I'm doing something wrong..
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Finding a good match is hard for everyone. Even drop dead gorgeous girls have a hard time. Because the number of people falling over her aren't all quality enough to get into a relationship with. So the looks issue is a non factor. There's someone for everyone.2