So I do not get it. If a guy says that he is into you does he mean it? I had a guy say he is into me then he tells everyone we are friends but he kisses me and holds my hand in public. He pays for me. I make him dinner he comes over and we hang a lot. So does he want the benefits of the relationship but not the title? I don't understand what is going on... he told me he wants to casually date but we aren't seeing anyone else we are exclusive and yeah...idk what happened first he said he was coming over soon and we were texting he kept telling me I didn't need to make him dinner I said I don't mind I want to its what I do he told me I was too nice and he doesn't deserve it then I asked him later when he was coming over he told me he wasn't anymore and that wants space and I asked if I did something wrong and he said no its me and I told him I guess I will text him in a couple of days I don't know what I did... he told me before that we would be
This all happened last week. He told me to stop contacting him...its been two days. Then his buddy told him that its been almost a week and it's time to contact me. I texted him and he said he was avoiding me because he is not sure...then he said he would give it another chance then then the next day he said stop contacting him and so I have its been three or four days now what?
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"If a guy says that he is into you does he mean it?" Yes he means it.
"he tells everyone we are friends but he kisses me and holds my hand in public. "
Sounds like he was showing it too.
"He pays for me. I make him dinner he comes over and we hang a lot."
Again, seems obvious.
" So does he want the benefits of the relationship but not the title?"
He never said he wanted a relationship with you.
" he told me he wants to casually date"
There we go, see? That's what he wants. Not a relationship.
When you ignore his wishes, make dinner when he says not to, AND THEN start calling him saying "When are you coming over?" you are acting like you're his wife or something.
That's exactly what he didn't want. So he tells you to back off.
It's becoming obvious to him that you're not capable of just dating casually. You're out for the relationship, by hook or by crook.
Your confusion is only coming about because you don't listen to what he says. He says one thing, you hear something else.0